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These are people that don’t belong on the blacklist but who act in ways that put you in a bad place if they are allowed to engage with your auctions. I had so many piss poor interactions on my last set of auctions that I wanted to just make a list of bad eBay users and anyone that cares to can throw them on their block list to potentially avoid a little bit of extra bullshit in the future.

guidomarg - Immediately cancels after auction ends because they “changed their mind about the price”
anttur1817 - Abusive messages when told I can’t tell GSP to cover his import duties

I’m sure I’ll be back with more, but I specifically wanted a thread where you can just give the quick and easy description of stupid ebay people and make everyone’s selling experience a little easier.

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All the above blocked…

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Non-paying buyer. Has feedback that another seller left with the same issue. Doesn’t respond to messages.

Ebay user name:

ritor-43

This is pathetic. Once you both start insulting each other, the argument has become personal and is no longer about the eBay sale. eBay has a policy for dealing with non-paying buyers and although it takes six days and isn’t the most effective, it’s still their policy and should be followed.

Can’t we establish rules for when a block is necessary? Keep personal rage out of this.

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I can completely understand your frustration with non-paying buyers especially in your case where you have auctions planned out. eBay needs to have a better way to handle the situation. I’ve been pissed about this same scenario many times as well. But once it become a personal argument and not about the sale, you lost me. Part of it was the buyer’s fault as well.

Just playing devils advocate here… Do you usually cancel before 48 hour window or was it mainly because you didn’t like that he won it at 65% of market? Just wondering since you mentioned that he “stole” it and was being a dick for not paying immediately. If he won ABOVE market for a nice lil profit, would you have cancelled so quickly? o_0 I couldn’t bother to read once it just turned to insults and threats :grin:

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Good post. To expand on this, we should cross reference banned lists. The big boys on eBay that have long lists of banned sellers/buyers should post them, then we could store them in a pinned place like www.elitefourum.com/t/e4-master-ebay-seller-buyer-blacklist/15572/1. Then two or three times a year we could dump our large plain text lists, cross reference them, then add the differences to a master list. This isn’t perfect but it’s an idea. I want a better marketplace on eBay. I don’t want the electronic Wild West.

You should’ve given him the 48 hrs he is in right to pay in that time frame if you aren’t willing to wait 48hrs don’t put anything up on auction and just require immediate payments. The risk of auctions are non paying buyers and that wont go away. As soon as you guys start cursing and threatening each other is when it all blows up and ebay doesn’t tolerate that on their site. Bottom line is you should’ve given him the 48hrs after that follow the cancel policy.

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Probably a consensus opinion but, not waiting the agreed apon 48hrs makes you the FIRST dick…though a lovable one lol.
He probably would have missed the deadline anyway so same result without all the aggravation;)

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If you didnt want to sell it for such a low price, do a BIN and then do best offer. @smpratte does this for the majority of his items if not all… If someone gets it for a steal, your loss. I am one to attest to this since I could of made profit on some cards and items I have sold and it was crappy to sell it for cheap but it was my fault for not just being patient…

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It was your decision to auction it and you created the risk to sell below market value. Just because you didn’t get as much as you want doesn’t mean someone has to pay sooner than a purchase price in your favor. You have no one to blame but yourself and you are missing out on a learning opportunity by letting it get to you rather than adjusting your sales plan. If you want a certain price, create a buy it now with or without best offer. The conversation that resulted was a waste of time and extremely childish.

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I was probably over optimistic in thinking this thread wouldn’t become something like this.

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I personally think this thread shows that not every situation is black and white. And discussing the shades of grey without getting into a dirty shouting match is a good way to understand Pokémon card transactions from both perspectives. It also shows that this platform is a place where people can be shown their mistakes and learn from it, instead of seeing them throwing a hissy fit and wasting a learning opportunity, like in so many other places on the internet.

I see value in these kinds of talks, but perhaps I’m the weird one here. :grin:

There is a benefit in that someone making a bogus claim is always super transparent. It basically says “block me, I’m a problematic business partner.”

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@tnols , I don’t understand why you keep mencioning that he “stole” from you when in fact you were the one giving it away and then changing your mind on it.

People are allowed to take 48hours to pay for a reason, not everyone has a credit card connected with Paypal, some have to make transfers to their accounts and that takes time, some just log in on ebay every couple of days due to life circumstances, and so on. I would see your post more fit on the “sour grapes” thread through the buyer perspective than in here.

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Sometimes I think I get a bit too worked up and rude in my messages then I come here and read stuff like this. Thanks for the reassurance I needed this morning.

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Getting back to what I believe was @funmonkey54 's intent on this thread. It is a long, but I guess you could call it in interesting read. We have our own @garyis2000 King_Pokemon and I have found the newly self proclaimed “negative feedback king”.

Recommended block: rayfr0

The following is our entire message history and I didn’t even realize the conversation with this clown went back all the way to October. Apparently I didn’t block him quick enough. Nothing removed nothing edited. He messaged about my 10 battling coin lots, as well as my complete battling coin collection but I’d imagine he buys cards too. S: will be me, sieds_steins and R: for rayfr0. Just put as assumed (sic) after every message of his since he clearly can’t spell anything and can’t be bothered to proofread anything.

*he starts out messaging on complete collection linked above

R: r u serious, with 341.99? those coins r used. maybe 10 dollarts u have 2 come way down, on ur price. maybe even 20 dollars, but u have 2 be the seller, that I know u can b… think about ur buyers.

S: Lol I have sold multiple complete 150 coin sets anywhere from 250-350 already.

Thanks though,

Dan

R: lol 2 those buyers. do u sell small sets, at reasonable prices.? do u have mew?

S: They didn’t make a mew coin. I sell other lots which you can find in my store.

R: I seen somewhere on ebay, 1 seller’s pokemon coins said, collect all 151 coins.

S: They were wrong then. I have had over 5,000 individual coins and 0 mews. (sic) Idk how/why I typed 5,000, it was meant to be 1,000

*he proceeds to move from the the complete collection lot to the 10 random coin lot

R: the booklet looks like it holds 12 coins. why only 10 per order? and if I did buy, would it b possible 2 get the booklet with the nidos? their my favorite pokemon? and maybe mewtwo.

S:Please read the listing. It doesn’t come with the pages. Just 10 coins at random and you can’t choose specific Pokemon.

R:I read the listening, I just wanted 2 know, why can’t I pick at least the nidos or at least the 1st 2 stages. I already have nidoqueen and nidoking but i’d like 2 get the other 4 & mewtwo. u could pick the other 5? what’s wrong with that?

S:You will get 10 used/new coins mixed randomly with no duplicates. You cannot select the coins.

R:okay, thabks anyway. I guess i’ll never collect all the nidos. but hey, i’ll check somewhere ele. if I decide I want 2 do business 4’ random coins i’ll le tu know.

R: hey, last time I made u an offer, u said u do sell smaller lots, but when I checked out ur random lot, u wouldn’t except a request 4 certain coins? how come price was raised? I thought coin lots were 11.99 4’ 10 random coins, even though b4 u said we could make a deal? I guess deal if off table?

S: I had a black friday/cyber monday sale that expired.

R:i’m just looking 4’ the 11.99 10 random coins? that was the black Friday/cyber Monday sale? u still didn’t answer my other question, the other day. why can’t someone choose the 10 random coins, if u have all of them?

S:
I don’t have unlimited amounts of all of them. Gathering specific coins takes more time too than just lotting together 10 of my more surplus coins. If I let anyone pick and choose I would be out of all the desirable ones within a day. People never want to pay enough more for choosing them either.

R:I guess I understand. I didn’t think I get all the one’s I was trying 2 collect? I guess i’m just wasting my time, asking> se ya. if I want 2 get some, then i’ll just buy the 10 random, if the price doesn’t go up?

R:there is a seller on here selling 69 pokemon battle coins for 59.99. can u beta that, if we mad ea deal? if we did deal 4 a big lot, I would want some specifics? could u make that kind of deal. but ur pirce and lot would have 2 beta theirs?

S: No. Go with them.

*he proceeds to buy 2 random lots and I don’t even catch it, as I assume he was already blocked

R: since I’ve ordered once and if I were 2 do it agagin, would I be able 2 pick at least a fewcoins. I won’t tell anybody. I did give u 5-stars, so. like I said, there’s only a few certain one’s i’m looking 4. if I were 2 buy the whole 150 coin lot, what would be the cheapest price u would take? could u tell me?

S:

Which do you need? I may not even have them.

*I made a mistake here giving in and potentially offering to take a look at his needs since I knew I had pending feedback awaiting me

R:

New message from: rayfr0 (69Blue Star)

nidorna (female) nidoran *(male, nidorina, nidorino, rhydon, atrticuno, zapdos, moltres, mewtwo, venomoth, victreebel, Persian, raichu, Pikachu, and sandslash? could u tell me the extras u have, so maybe we could both figure it out?

*of course its a big list with a few desirables that I have very limited stock of

S:The problem is this takes too much time and isn’t worth it for me. The 10 coin lots are already made. If you want to pay $4 per coin I could look into specific ones.

R:that’s tow face. u say I can pick, then u say u won’t two face. that’s why they call me the negative feedback king and i’m proud of it!

*emphasis mine

S:I never said I would do it. I simply asked what you needed. If it was a single coin and I could find it quickly I would do it. I’m not going to spend 45 minutes tearing open 10 pre made lots to maybe or maybe not find this long list of coins you need. Again… I likely don’t even have them.

I don’t have the time to sell individual coins to people who don’t want to pay a premium that is why I sell blind random lots.

R: like I said, two face. but ur a negative seller and i’ll never waste my time with u again! don’t bother replying. thanks 4 wasting my time, so I can speak my mind! I hope I have a good day, but I won’t evn waste my time,s aying it 2 u!

TLDR: WATCH OUT FOR ME I AM TOW FACE! I AM NOT THE SELLER THAT RAYFR0 KNOWS I CAN BE!

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Holy shit you guys are way way WAY too patient on eBay hahaha. I blocked him.

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I should mention that in the meantime he did leave positive feedback on the two random lots he bought.

“LIKE THE COINS.”

Then he recently followed it up with:

" THIS IS A NEGATIVE SELLER, WHO LIED ABOUT ME PICKING FUTURE COINS OF A LOT. BAD."

So I replied (using Rusty’s handy link)

“No need to yell. Sadly I am not the seller u know I can B. Maybe some day…”

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